As a woman of this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself.
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man.
I am in a positon to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"

I am not referring to money.
I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for perfection in all aspects of life.

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple minded man.

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be equally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden.

I am looking for a man who is sensitive enough to keep me grounded.

I am looking for someone who I can respect.

In order to be submissive, I must respect him.
I can not be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business.
I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.

God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can not help a man who can not help himself.

A man might be saying....I am asking a lot...Well, I am worth a lot!!

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Comment by Sera C on November 26, 2008 at 3:40pm
Well articulated Mereyani. YES to have a man of substance and quality is a rare thing indeed. To all man of substance out there spread the word to your brothers...lol~
Comment by sa rauta mada on November 25, 2008 at 11:57pm
Well said...u pray,to find one.Hope you will.Stay focused and be positive...ahhah...very good introduction.
Comment by Kasanita Kamakorewa Lindell on November 17, 2008 at 7:28am
Comment by Fanny C on November 14, 2008 at 12:06pm
There you go Mereani...Its nice to get that encouraging point of view from the opposite sex....
Vinaka Iliesa...!!
Comment by Iliesa Rainima on November 14, 2008 at 11:28am
Bula Ani, vinaka na positive attitude.....vaka nida sa tiko ena gauna oqo,lot of women are very indepedent and very positive for what they achieve..good on yah......I believe that you need a man that is Hubble and be very understading,be able to stand up for himself and share the love and care which is very important for any relationship...a good woman will make a good family its a womans power.
Comment by Fanny C on November 11, 2008 at 12:56pm
Good Luck to you Lewa...! I have to agree with my tavale Ana..Dont ever lower that Bar...!
On a more lighter note...Might I add "GIB "to your list....?? hehehehe
Comment by ana kete on November 11, 2008 at 11:56am
Dont lower the bar or standard, I will pray that GOD provided your man that will love you the way you are .
Comment by Monique on November 10, 2008 at 6:12pm
It's a pity that women like us are a minority. The man that does get us will be a very lucky man.
Gone are the days when only the women were lucky to be with a good to do man.
Comment by heilala on November 10, 2008 at 3:13pm
I'm happy for you girl....very good values and morals.We need....." MAN OF GOD".......and not "PASSIVE MAN"!!!!!!!!!
Comment by ana kete on November 10, 2008 at 12:30pm
HI, YOU certainly have a good taste , good values and is an admirable quality to have or archieve . MOREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE POWERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRTOOOOOOOOOO YOUUUUUUUUU

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