Man or Horse.....?

Heres the situation....My ex married a lovely american girl on the 5th December 2009. My kids love her which made me very happy. Come to find out through a reliable source that ex still continues to see his fijian girlfriend (who is married with a daughter in Fiji) even after his marriage to this lovely american girl. Now, Fijian girlfriend is pregnant with his child. He won't take resposibility for his actions and feels that the lovely american girl (wife) ought to get over it and stop whinning about what he did. Now Fijian girlfriend feels that the baby will be a burden to her and that they ought to send the baby to exs family in Fiji. Why would you have a child if you feel that it would be a burden to you? Why not come clean with Husband in Fiji concerning your baby and send it to your family? Did this lovely american girl really deserve it ? or was she totally being used as a decoy so that sexual abuse allegations made against fijian girlfriend would be ignored? What kind of man would do this to a woman. Is he a man at all or some sort of MONSTER?

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Permalink Reply by NiteDrox on January 21, 2010 at 6:55pm: I cannot agree more with Reapi and others.....we need to redirect our focus. Lets all be free ! Me da vakagalalataki keda mai na veivakatotogani ni vuni ca ko setani.
SWOT analysis sa qai yaga eke.

Focus on Strength, learn from Weaknesses, direct towards Opportunities and be aware of Threats.

All the best Tima !The best of Golds are tested through fire and survive !

Permalink Reply by StRYka aka LOne rAnger on January 22, 2010 at 12:01am: hahaha wara o Venisoni leka hehe..

Permalink Reply by StRYka aka LOne rAnger on January 22, 2010 at 8:55am: Tima e rawa na apply yani?? :)

Permalink Reply by Kate on January 22, 2010 at 12:58pm: Oho sa qai ca tale na ka qo lol!!!

Permalink Reply by Kasanita Kamakorewa Lindell on January 22, 2010 at 2:44pm: @ LOne rAnger..StRYka - Are you man or horse or both? :P lol

Permalink Reply by Anaseini U Tudonu on January 22, 2010 at 5:06pm: He is a monster,a bastard i may call...because of his evil ways,a womanizer i may say,Tima don't worry,there is plenty fish in the sea...kua ni bobula vei macawa qori.

Permalink Reply by Kate on January 22, 2010 at 8:22pm: Haha perfectly normal to you, yeah rite dau kai tu man's game......wat a disgusting game.

Mai vaka vu ca ni yalo tale na thread qo. No need for name calling, keda sega ni kila na talanoa dina se cava e vakavuna nona vaka oya o tagane. O Tima ga e kila, if it's really bad as it sounds then get over it & move on. Toro yani vei Jisu lewa na wali ni leqa kece.

Permalink Reply by mereoni ramanumanu on January 22, 2010 at 8:06pm: tima...au dua vata kei iko, mo nanuma tiko, in every broken relationship in this planet, only the children suffer alot..thats why some of them rebel againts authoroty....ia sana vakatau saraga vei iko na nomu na tuberi ratou tiko, e dina ena so na gauna eratou na vinakati tamadratou, ia sana vakatau ga vei ratou na nodratou digidigi......sa vaka e dau matau toka vei keda nisa yaco na leqa, daqai dau vei dusi tale, ocei e vakavuna, naka ga au via vakaraitaka eke... in every relationship the most important thing is communication. naka ga mo cakava mo vosa ga vei tamadratou na gone, mo drau veitalanoa taka vinaka na kaga me baleti iratou na gone keina na nodratou susugi. Ortherwise my dear just focus only to your children and forget Dad.......namai kuri tale ni mosi ni qavokavoka o ta..........ok tima u take care

Permalink Reply by George Sale Asuega on January 22, 2010 at 9:00pm: THANK YOU TIMAIMA FOR INITIATING THIS DISCUSSION AND MEMBERS
FOR YOUR COMMENTS. VIEWS EXPRESSED ARE AS VARIED AND INTERESTING
AS THE PERSONALITIES THEMSELVES.

BUT THE ADVICE ABOVE FROM MEREONI PUTS IT RATHER SUCCINCTLY, "..IN EVERY
BROKEN RELATIONSHIP..ONLY THE CHILDREN SUFFER A LOT..FOCUS ONLY ON YOUR
CHILDREN AND FORGET DAD."

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