Man or Horse.....?

Heres the situation....My ex married a lovely american girl on the 5th December 2009. My kids love her which made me very happy. Come to find out through a reliable source that ex still continues to see his fijian girlfriend (who is married with a daughter in Fiji) even after his marriage to this lovely american girl. Now, Fijian girlfriend is pregnant with his child. He won't take resposibility for his actions and feels that the lovely american girl (wife) ought to get over it and stop whinning about what he did. Now Fijian girlfriend feels that the baby will be a burden to her and that they ought to send the baby to exs family in Fiji. Why would you have a child if you feel that it would be a burden to you? Why not come clean with Husband in Fiji concerning your baby and send it to your family? Did this lovely american girl really deserve it ? or was she totally being used as a decoy so that sexual abuse allegations made against fijian girlfriend would be ignored? What kind of man would do this to a woman. Is he a man at all or some sort of MONSTER?

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Permalink Reply by Reapi Nayacakalou-Kubunavuravura on January 21, 2010 at 5:14pm: lewa...let him & the two hers sort out their lives and their problems and you get on with the business of looking after your children and yourself...that is most important. you can't be worrying about the infidelities of your ex or the outcome of his actions....you should be worried more about how your children will be brought up...just be thankful that you are out of the picture for good...

now i urge you to focus all your energies and strength on the upbringing of your children - let them not see the faults or weaknesses of their father through your eyes...let them grow as individuals who will make up their own minds of what they think of their father for at the end of the day - HE is still after all their father.

As KKL as said - take the higher road - laiva na nodra mate me ra buluta!!!!

Permalink Reply by Isasobolei on January 21, 2010 at 6:50pm: I CAN SENSE ALOT OF HATRED IN THIS THREAD.....FIRST IT WAS THE POSTING OF SOME LEGAL PAPERS ISSUED BY SOME COURT....AND NOW THIS.....COME ON GIRL...ITS TIME TO GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON....
AND ....DOES THE WHOLE WORLD HAVE TO KNOW HOW MUCH HATRED YOU HAVE FOR THE T-FULLA AND THE GIRL THAT SNATCHED HIM AWAY FROM YOU.....

Permalink Reply by NiteDrox on January 21, 2010 at 6:55pm: I cannot agree more with Reapi and others.....we need to redirect our focus. Lets all be free ! Me da vakagalalataki keda mai na veivakatotogani ni vuni ca ko setani.
SWOT analysis sa qai yaga eke.

Focus on Strength, learn from Weaknesses, direct towards Opportunities and be aware of Threats.

All the best Tima !The best of Golds are tested through fire and survive !

Permalink Reply by Kai Ra-sia on January 21, 2010 at 9:27pm: Ahahahahaahah QueenB sa qai lasa tale qori

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Permalink Reply by LOne rAnger aka StRYka on January 22, 2010 at 12:01am: hahaha wara o Venisoni leka hehe..

Permalink Reply by Mz K on January 22, 2010 at 12:34am: ha ha ha ... dina dina Queen B ..sa kena gauna me sa sogo na kisi ni jaina qoi ... lolz

Wele tiko o tamadratou na gone, se lai wacegucegu tiko na teke vaka na ose .. e da mai wabunobuno na soli vakasama ... hahahahaha!

Sa kena gauna me da veitauriliga yani i baravi, sa tau oti na vakasama kei na vakasala vakayalo, vakayago .. yaco sara vei ratou na dau kumuni stats wai Amrika ..uwiiiii ... toso toso ... NEXXXXT .... LOL

Permalink Reply by Kai Ra-sia on January 22, 2010 at 12:50pm: Hahahaha QueenB & Mz Katera sa qai lasa dina. Qori dou veitoriliga yani dou liu yani i matasawa, Mz kua ni guilecava na nomu vava ni butu kai, hahaha.

Permalink Reply by Benny Matson on January 22, 2010 at 2:45am: Dua vata keirau na Marama..........metou sa toso....mesa cavu nai kelekele...sa drava mai na siwa tiko ena vanua qo...dua tale mada e bulia mai edua na Ulutaga vinaka meda veinanumi tu kina ena soli vakasama..

Cecere tiko ka marautaki tiko na vakacagicagi ena muanimacawa qo.se i veiga na yasai vuravura koni dui tu kina na Luvei Viti.

Permalink Reply by Mz K on January 22, 2010 at 1:04pm: @ Benny .. kalougata tiko nomu weekend ... enjoy and stay blessed

@ Kai Ra -Sia .. my tau na vava sabisabi la e maleka, sa kua so na vaqara koya me vakabukuna. Sa dredre na bula, butu kai sa rauji ira la na cariba ... lol ...lol !