Step1:Decide what you want. This is the first step. Do you even WANT to be in a serious relationship with this person? Do you like this person and enjoy the time spent together? You really need to accomplish this step and answer these questions first.

Step 2:Communicate with your partner. Find out what your partner feels. Be sure that he or she is also willing to commit to a serious relationship. It is possible that person has the same fears. Or, that person may calm your fears and make you feel more secure about making the commitment. Just talk!

Step 3:Figure out your fears. It could be fear of loss of freedom or space or time. It could be fear of being with one person for the rest of your life. This is where the communication takes place. (And rational thought.)

Step 4:Let go of the past. All of us have been hurt and all of us are afraid to make the same mistakes. But, hanging on to the past only prevents future happiness. Remember: You can not change the past, only the future.

Step 5:Stop the pessimism. It is easy to come up with a million reasons a serious relationship won't work. He's too sloppy, she doesn't dress nice enough, etc., etc. Think of the good qualities in that person and why you started dating in the first place.

Step 6: Delete profiles from ALL DATING SITES. Accept you are in a serious relationship and do not allow others to think otherwise. You do not want to be tempted to date when that "perfect person" sends you a love e-mail. Remember you have something good and... see next step.

Step 7:Get over the "grass is greener" syndrome. Many people have a fear of commitment because of what they BELIEVE they will be missing if they make the serious commitment. Appreciate what you have. Remember: The grass is NOT always greener.

Step 8:Put effort into the relationship. This is the part that gets most people. They don't want to work at the relationship, they don't want to compromise. That seems to be TOO MUCH WORK. Well, if you want love in your life, you are going to have to work at it - FACE IT!

Step 9: Serious CommitmentTake a leap of faith. This is the final step. Once all the above steps are accomplished, you are ready to commit to a serious relationship.

Have fun!!

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Ha!ha!hhh bond...release nomu yava....lol. Dau tukuni ga..."Na yalo ga me ju dodonu"....@step 6...!!
sa dua ga na release tiko vei iko bond..lol
THANKS....NEED TO REVIEW STEP 3 ...AHEM..!!
Always be ready to ENGAGE like in a battle when she called....even if the wether is dull from your perspective!! lolzz

That'll be ...Step 8.5!
Guilty of what romoi.......these are steps if you want to commit yourself to a serious relatioship lozzz
and you're guilty already?? hahahahaha.....gone kilakilaka!!!!lolzz
Qo sa vaka tale na 3 steps to heaven...ha!ha!hhhh. Nice topic sara ga vei keda na se vaqaqara tiko...ahemmmmmm...!!
o ni via commit??????............gole ga mai ena bar............'eimami sa waraki 'emuni ti'o na maramasssss..........ok........i'll make u fill alrite.........lolz
@Tau Stee...kua ni leqa.....keimami sa gole sara ga yani qo me lai laurai mada na via commit e caka jiko qori mai na bar....barman se barmaid ti'o o io....kuwaiiiiiii(kawai).....lol
WAHAHAAHAHAHA UWAIIIIIIII CEWABOKO TALE KARI NA GONE DRAMIDRAMI LOL UWAI KAI, AU TALEGA SE VAQIQISI JIKO KA?HAHAHAHAHA SA DA COMMIT MAI FOR 10YRS SA MINO GA UWAIIIIIIII SA SOLI TALE MAI NAI VOLA NI GAGAJI MEDA SA LAKO YATU KE I TUBA UWAIIIIII HAHAHAHAAHAHA...
Ha!ha!hhh @bond & MTN....gonei tou se vaqaqara vata jikoga qo ie, dua tale mai ora va na cewaboko ka jili jiko ka....yleiiiiiiiiii Navua....!!
vaka modou veigarovi tale na tauvu ni kadavu qoka...dou vodo mai ena bulou ni ceva ke dou vodo lesu kina...uwo...dou bau mai vodo ena motoka se basi.....karaik
hahahahahaha wota karaik...baci voleka tale mo lewai....ratou mata vodo voki vana nodratou waqa ...sa kasa tiko mai Rotuma

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