INDEED YOU CANNOT CHANGE THE PAST- BUT YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR FUTURE! WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING ABOUT OUR PAST THAT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER MADE BAD OR DECISIONS. NOBODY KNOWS THAT BUT ONLY YOU. WE MAY TRY TO HIDE IT OR PRETENT THAT IT WAS NOT THERE BUT YOU KNOW WHAT-EVERY NOW AND THEN IT USUALLY POPS OUT FROM YOUR MIND AND BRINGS FORTH WITH IT ALL THE PAIN, AGONY AND GUILTY CONSCIOUS YOU ONCE HAVE. BY SHARING THAT YOU HAVE ACTUALLY LIGHTEN MUCH OF THAT BURDEN YOU HAVE BUT PLIZ DO NOT SUPPRESS. TRY AND LOOK BACK TO DISCERN WHICH WRONG DECISION OR ACT YOU MADE THAT CHANGES OR TAKE AWAY THINGS YOU THINK THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN DIFFERENT HAD YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. YOU CAN USE A DIFFERENT NAME IF YOU WANT TO. I KNOW YOU HAVE ONE-COME ON SHARE IT WITH US!!
my parents taught me not to liv life with regrets..so what i did was to think first before i did anything that will make me regret in life...so far i'm happy with what i have and have done and i thank ma parents for that.
I have learn not to dwell in the past as my eyes are in the front and not @the back of my head. Yes, there are a lots of regrets, hurts, spoken and unspoken words, things that I should have done and shouldn't have done. I learn to cast them out of my life and mind and move forward.
Today, I am so grateful and so thankful to our heavenly father that I have come to know him @such a time as this, that I can cast all my burdens upon His shoulders and be free from all bondage.
Be always grateful of what you have and possess because luck and blessings comes only once so appreciate the people in your life because everything happened for a reason because we all have regrets about anything in our life and all we can do is be patient and tell your family and friends you love them everyday and improve on your mistakes and wrong assumption you made then move on..do not hold on to it by worrying about it because it will hold you down forever.. Instead, focus on all the wonderful things that are present in your life now. I know i made a great mistake in my life but i have apologised to that person I have hurt and maybe one day she will forgive me..
so If you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
If you have a bad day at work; think of the man who has been out of work for years.
If you despair over a relationship gone bad; think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.
If you grieve the passing of another weekend; think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.
If your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance; think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.
If you notice a new gray hair in the mirror; think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
If you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful. There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.
If you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; remember, things could be worse. You could be one of them!
enjoy life to the max for it comes only once with less regrets....