DATING AGE GAP; IS There HOPE 4 SPARKS 2 FLY??

As if the world of dating didn't already have enough nuances and complications, differences in age between you and your significant other can be a common source of complication.

Whether you are currently dating someone or considering dating someone who differs greatly in age from yourself,....it's your personal choice..huh!!

As you've probably already guessed (or experienced for yourself), dating someone, let's say, 12 years your senior/junior...ha!ha!ha!...yeah can elicit some raised eyebrows from friends and family--and it's never pleasant when the closest people in your life don't approve of the one you love.

You'll have to decide whether your family members and friends are the kind of people who can get over the age gap in your relationship given time, or if they'll always hold it against them.... for this simple fact.

My personal thought....Use caution!!

Yr thoughts & comments dear frenz?? Please share if you MUST!!

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Permalink Reply by MACAKE on March 6, 2010 at 5:00pm: JUST GIVE IT A GO.....THE SPARKS MIGHT LIGHT UP THE SKY......LOL; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Helen Chandra on March 6, 2010 at 5:29pm: Ha!ha!ha! MACAKE

Side by side with Meteor showers.....flashing across the sky!!

And then top it off...eating by candle light, giving you added sparks inside. .KAILAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

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Permalink Reply by MACAKE on March 6, 2010 at 6:20pm: DONT FORGET THE WINE AND LOTS OF CHEESE; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Ro Misiwata Lutunauga Logavatu on March 6, 2010 at 9:45am: Hey at the end of the day If he or she still rocks your boat then good luck to ya!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Kasanita Kamakorewa Lindell on March 6, 2010 at 9:53am: @ Ro Misiwata Lutunauga Logavatu.

uwouu!!!

Drau bula vinaka ie, sa rauta me draki vinaka e dai!!

So good to see you again, it's been a good long while, welcome back! :)

We do miss your wit and humor!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Helen Chandra on March 6, 2010 at 4:19pm: Bula Ro Misiwata Lutunauga Logavatu,

Appreciate the response!!

I think the only time age gaps become an issue is when the people are evolving at a different pace. Not saying this happens all the time, but it happens to some. The simple facts are if you keep up communication, work together, love one another, and make it a point to have fun together.... you’ll be fine.

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Permalink Reply by Ro Misiwata Lutunauga Logavatu on March 13, 2010 at 2:10pm: True, but the wonders of mordern day medicine have put old men and women back in the game. Thank god for botox and viagra ay.............; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Helen Chandra on March 13, 2010 at 3:04pm: Bula Ro Misiwata Lutunauga Logavtu,

ha!ha!..YES right back into the GAME!!
Banishing those unsightly neck bands. Clearing away irksome crow's-feet.
Botox injections are being used to erase the effects of time. Some say poison, some say wrinkles. .lolz!!..

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Just how large? Some 43 percent of women suffer with sexual dysfunction, compared to 31 percent of men, according to University of Chicago researcher Dr. Edward Laumann.
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Permalink Reply by blanco on March 6, 2010 at 2:39pm: its not the age,but the soul..imao! ha ha!

if you two's soul become one, then the body does not matter..hihihi!.....& what other people think of you doesnt matter as well.lol!...sai iko ga! lol sega ni dua tale sai iko ga.lol!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Helen Chandra on March 6, 2010 at 4:33pm: HI precious,

Ha!ha!ha!..LOL!!

Age, like time, is perhaps something we humans make up. Really,...it tells us nothing about the person!!

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Permalink Reply by ksDear on March 6, 2010 at 4:10pm: Dating someone 12 years my senior/junior is just not my style, almost like daddy & daughter, or grandpa lol!!! Imagine when u are 30 and hes 50 u will not be able to experience certain things..........for men they look great old as hell and can still function, but women not as well sadly. We got all the curses & the turning heads when we walk past. Some may say age doe not matter it's the soul or love that bond the 2.....but for me nah I'll pass big time.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Helen Chandra on March 6, 2010 at 5:54pm: Yesssssss......I understand what u mean!! Dear KS!

While it seems creepy, dating someone ten years older or younger could be just what one needs to keep the relationship interesting. While one might be able to keep a young girl modern & true, an older man could impart his extra years of wisdom, working out a beautiful balance between youthfulness and maturity in the relationship.

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